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Famous last words!

Famous last words!

I’m sure he won’t mind…Us eating a bit of his Tony’s chocolate.Famous last words! I get it now…With hindsight.Most kids would have an issue with their parents eating their chocolate.What I wasn’t aware of was that Lucas had plans for his chocolate. He must have...
Expect to be on paths you never expected

Expect to be on paths you never expected

I grew up in a Chinese takeaway. My parents envisioned a different life for me. They pushed relentlessly—university was the goal. University usually leads to a good job. A good job usually brings a good salary. A good salary usually secures a good life.   This...
The Delegator

The Delegator

Exploring new experiences with my son Lucas often leads me to getting various all-in-one kits. I appreciate these kits because they save me the trouble of gathering materials myself. Getting inspiration from numerous books on autism, I’ve been focusing...
BAD SINGING! An honest critic…

BAD SINGING! An honest critic…

Every time I catch myself humming or singing, I hesitate. It wasn’t always like that. I’ve never claimed to be a good singer, but I’ve always enjoyed singing along to classics in the kitchen. I’ve found myself hesitating because whenever I start singing, a little...
“I don’t want to be a man”

“I don’t want to be a man”

“I don’t want to be 9”   On his 9th birthday, Lucas confided in me, “I don’t want to be 9.” It caught me off guard – I always believed kids wanted to be older. I reassured him and said, “It’s okay, you can be...
I CAN do this because I’m autistic

I CAN do this because I’m autistic

“The drop slide is now open!” My little boy came running over, telling me that he wanted a mark on his hand so he could go on the drop slide. It was his 9th  birthday party and we had decided to hold it at a soft play arena. I gave my permission, and he duly got a...