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#429 – Comparison – Help or Hinder?

#429 – Comparison – Help or Hinder?

“Why didn’t you get an A like your cousin?” Many of my clients from Middle Eastern, Indian, or Asian cultures have experienced such questions from their parents. The parents think they are stoking healthy competition. Unfortunately, it’s not always seen that way by...
#428 – Do You Finish Your Projects?

#428 – Do You Finish Your Projects?

Er…What do you mean I’m not a finisher? I finish stuff. I finish my Netflix series. I finish my chocolate bar. See I finish Stuff. Ok, I’m joking around a bit but no one can say you don’t finish things. So you’re not finishing the stuff you want to finish, as your...
#425 – Write It For The Bin

#425 – Write It For The Bin

Have you ever sat down to write and found that nothing seems to flow? It could be a blog post, a report, website text, an email, or even a text. Then write it for the bin. First drafts are exactly what it says on the box – first drafts. It’s the rewriting, redrafting,...
#420 – What Are You Willing To Give Up?

#420 – What Are You Willing To Give Up?

“I want it all – I want it all – I want it all and I want it now” – Queen Doesn’t everyone want it all and now? But what are you willing to give up? What are you willing to sacrifice? When I was first asked this question by a coach many years ago, it surprised me. I...
#419 – Going Permie

#419 – Going Permie

When I worked for a bank, the term “going permie” meant that you had gotten a permanent contract having been a contractor beforehand.   As some companies extend the home working setup to the end of the year or even to next year and others require just a fraction...
#418 – There Are No Musts

#418 – There Are No Musts

I must send off that report. I must contact those potential clients. I must pay the mortgage.   Often I hear clients say “I must do this”, “I have to do this” or “I need to do that”. Sounds pretty heavy and obligation full right?   What if we changed it to...